I have just listened to a fascinating Radio 4 programme about Open Adoption and not surprising there is now talk that open adoption and letter contact with birth parents may actually be detrimental to the child.
This is one reason why potential parents may choose international adoption over domestic adoption, because the idea of open adoption does not really make sense.
Is it in the child's best interest to have contact with someone who has physically, mentally or sexually abused them, or who has neglected them? The reason why these children have been removed from their parents in the first place. is because the parents could not care for them, so what positive outcome will there be to 'force' contact with these people?
They mentioned in the programme that open adoption was supposed to reveal a truth about the child's life, so that hidden mis-truths will not be created. But, because most children who are adopted have trauma in their lives, from the hands of those very people who are supposed to care for them and who are responsible for them being in care, miss truths are being created and the truth is being hidden, covered up and fabricated.
I welcome the latest comments and I am glad that there will now be a look into the practice of open adoption and at least reveal that it may not always be in the best interest of the child.
This is one reason why potential parents may choose international adoption over domestic adoption, because the idea of open adoption does not really make sense.
Is it in the child's best interest to have contact with someone who has physically, mentally or sexually abused them, or who has neglected them? The reason why these children have been removed from their parents in the first place. is because the parents could not care for them, so what positive outcome will there be to 'force' contact with these people?
They mentioned in the programme that open adoption was supposed to reveal a truth about the child's life, so that hidden mis-truths will not be created. But, because most children who are adopted have trauma in their lives, from the hands of those very people who are supposed to care for them and who are responsible for them being in care, miss truths are being created and the truth is being hidden, covered up and fabricated.
I welcome the latest comments and I am glad that there will now be a look into the practice of open adoption and at least reveal that it may not always be in the best interest of the child.
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